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How to Ask for Permission in English: Polite Phrases

Learn polite and natural ways to ask for permission in casual and formal settings, and respond gracefully in any situation.

Hello, wonderful learners!

Today, we’ll explore how to ask for permission in English. Whether you’re in a casual setting with friends or at work or school, knowing the right phrases makes it easier to sound polite and natural.

Let’s explore useful examples and tips to help you ask for permission confidently.

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Casual Ways to Ask for Permission

Use these phrases with friends or family when the atmosphere is relaxed:

  • “Can I borrow your charger?”

  • “Is it okay if I sit here?”

  • “Do you mind if I turn on the TV?”

More example:

  • “Can I take one of these cookies?”

Formal Ways to Ask for Permission

When you’re in a more formal situation, like work or school, it’s best to use polite forms:

  • “May I leave early today?”

  • “Would it be alright if I rescheduled the meeting?”

  • “Could I ask for your permission to use the printer?”

More examples:

  • “May I have a moment of your time?”

  • “Would you mind if I spoke with you after class?”

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Indirect Ways to Ask for Permission

If you want to be extra polite or soften your request, try these indirect forms:

  • “I was wondering if I could use your laptop.”

  • “Do you think I could join you later?”

  • “Would it be possible for me to leave a bit early?”

More example:

  • “I hope it’s okay if I bring a friend along.”

Responding to Permission Requests

When someone grants your request, show appreciation:

  • “Thanks a lot!”

  • “I really appreciate it!”

If permission is denied, stay polite:

  • “No problem, I understand.”

  • “That’s alright, thanks anyway.”

Extra Tip: Add “Please” and “Thank You”

Using polite words like “please” and “thank you” makes your request sound friendlier. For example:

  • “May I borrow your book, please?”

  • “Can I join you? Thanks!”

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That’s it for today! Try these phrases in your conversations this week, and soon asking for permission will feel natural and easy.

Until tomorrow, happy learning!

Warm regards,

ESL Expert, ESLA

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